How do you feel when a person you’re not interested in expresses an unwanted affection or sexual advance? Emotions could range from ego trip to disgust. Those feelings are magnified when you dream about a man or woman making a proposition for sex.
When a male client shared his dream, I asked if I could use it for my blog. Here’s his dream:
I was at a house that was having a stag party. Somehow I ended up in somebody’s bedroom, lying nude on a bed with a naked young woman on top of me. She started gyrating her groin area onto my junk. I kept yelling, “No, no, no!” But she continues to gyrate. There was a part of me that wanted to because I was so turned on, yet at the same time I kept on seeing my wife’s pretty face in my mind. Finally, I pushed her off of me.
Here are five dream interpretation of what could have been the dreams’ meanings:
- He is being reminded of how much he loves his wife.
- His fantasy of having an affair was carried into this dream.
- A young woman has shown him unwanted attention.
- This could be a precognitive dream warning him of future events.
- Post regrets of cheating on his wife.
My client’s dream reminded me of a recent dream that I had:
I was at some kind of gathering when a fundamentalist Christian man approached me expressing how enthralled he was with me. Feelings of being repulsed by him came up; therefore, I immediately told him, “I’m in a relationship.”
Then an attractive, hippy/new age man started hitting on me. Even though he was mesmerizing, my partner’s face came into my mind and I replied, “I’m already in love with another man.”
Upon awaking, I had an attitude of gratitude for my mate. The dream was reinforcing my commitment to him, while expressing how he was balanced between the two extremes of being a fundamentalist and new ager.
What I love about both dreams is the lessons of: being committed in a love relationship, rejecting instant gratification, choosing wisely, and executing boundaries. These two dreams are excellent teachers of what to avoid and actions to take during our waking lives.
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